Growth Process

8 Steps to Interrupt Limerence

8 Steps to Interrupt Limerence

When relationships end, there is often a period of relief, adjustment, and emotional discomfort.

When the intensity of the break up intensifies instead of diminishing, you may be experiencing limerence.

To step out of the limerence cycle, there are important steps to consider.

Yes we are a couple, but are we friends?

Yes we are a couple, but are we friends?

At the beginning of your relationship, this question may have seemed absurd. 

Of course you were friends - perhaps your new love interest seemed like you new BEST friend!! Back then you could list off many qualities and traits of this new person in your life. 

Growth process and wishing for an easier future

 Growth process and wishing for an easier future

Some people come to therapy to unload their current distress. It might be an awful situation, or a pattern of relationship drama that keeps repeating itself. I might see them for a few sessions and then they disappear, only to reappear months later with another problem.